Release your inner critics.
Release your outer critics.

Take at least one bold action everyday.

Happy New Year!

What would make a perfect gift this holiday season? Well, how about the gift of orgasm? It should be mandatory that during the holiday season, and heck all year round for that matter, that women have umpteenth orgasms per day.


Whether you're a holiday fanatic-- decorate your house, lot's of shopping, attend many parties and holiday programs-- or whether you plan to skip Christmas like the couple in the movie, Christmas with the Kranks, you've probably discovered that it's impossible to escape the holiday madness.

Whether you are a willing or unwilling participant in the holiday hoopla, life is a lot less stressful when you're getting off.

Unfortunately, an orgasm can't be gift wrapped. Wouldn't it be nice if Santa would slide down your chimney and drop off an orgasm-in-a-box? Each time you spin the knob, you climax. Ah, a girl can dream.

Even though an orgasm can't be gift wrapped, there are some tips and scents that might aide in you having the big one.

An article on webmd.com, titled, "Can't Orgasm? Here's Help for Women." gives women tips on how to have an orgasm with their partner. The article advises that women should tense up. Tense up? Yep, the article explains muscle tension in your sweet spot helps one reach an orgasm.

But what if you don't want, or don't have a partner? You could go solo. The booklet Soulful Vagina, written for entertainment purposes only, mentions a type of orgasm called, "Strangle your Vagina." Sounds brutal, but we hear that it feels oh, so good.

Scents that excite your sweet spot. Peppermint and Cinnamon.

Peppermint is reported to improve blood circulation, help ease pain, relieve headaches, and stop bad breath - all symptoms that can keep you out of the mood. Not in mood equals no orgasm.

Cinnamon is considered useful for producing "heat" within the body. Supposedly it increases physical and sexual appetites. Appetite equals orgasms.

Cheers. Here's to having lot's of holiday orgasms.

Here's SV resolution.

Greetings Blog Readers....

Well, we've been a bit delayed on getting our SV website up.  But, and this is a promise, site will be revealed in the next few days, with a juicy story.  So hold on, and get ready--we are about to release.

Hi Blog Readers--

Been working very hard with website designer, and on products.  So many kinks, not anticipated.  Keep checking this blog for updates.  Soulful Vagina promises to bring you'll gifts for the holidays.
Follow on Twitter @soulfulvagina
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Update.  Our website is set to launch on Friday. This Friday.  The day before Sweetest Day. 

So, check back on this blog then, and you'll get a VIP tour.  FYI Our website seeks to empower and celebrate women!

It's Soulful...

Sweetest Day is this Saturday.  Once known as a day to spread love and cheer this popular holdiay is now known as a day to show affection to loved ones in your life.

You can't put a price on love, but do tell--How will you celebrate the one that you love?

Perhaps the one that you love the most is you.  How will you celebrate you?  How will you 'do you'?

Go ahead celebrate!

Oh my.  Touch your self.   Click on the word touch.

Happy weekend. Products and new book coming soon.

Be good to self.

Love self. 

Touch self.

Sweetest Day is October 15th 2010.

Try not to become someone's jump off.
  Click on Jump off link.

Hey Blog readers--

A quick update. We are working on the website for our soulful vagina products.  We hope to have it ready by Sweetest Day this year. Think that date is October 15th. 

In the meantime . Happy Reading.

Write a poem about your Soulful Vagina.  Don't be shy....release.

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Don't let the penis ejaculate in your brain.  Wooooh this woman tells it like it issssssssss. We'll see if we can bring her to one of our SV workshops.

Alexyss Tylor Soulful Diva

Anybody up for going to Washington along with Steve Colbert and Jon Stewart, and the Million Masturbator's march.

What do you think? 

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Been getting amazing feedback from this book...so much so that products and website are coming soon.  Who knew?

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Do black women with BIG BUTTS have more fun?


We certainly do. Well, I certainly use too. More on that later.

Cincinnati’s most popular black radio station, with mostly black callers, usually covers topics on everything from local and national politics to crime and punishment. Guest on the show range from big wigs like the town’s black mayor to passionate grassroots activist.

But on a sweltering hot Thursday in Cincinnati the afternoon portion of the show got hotter than the temperature outside when the following question was asked by the black male host, Which celebrity body/butt do callers most fantasize about.

The radio stations lines lit up with seemingly horny, otherwise intelligent men who happily told which celebrity “badonkadonk” was in their fantasy file. Most of the callers appeared to care more about the butt than the entire body.
Names tossed out included celebrities with the best bods/butts in the business. Serena, Alicia Keys, Fantasia, Halle Berry, and Gabrielle Union. Amazingly no one mentioned LisaRaye McCoy's “badonkadonk.“ I'm a straight woman, who unapologetically thinks that McCoy has got one of the best butts in the business.

Big surprise, Serena's butt won "most fantasized about butt." According to the men informally polled, Serena is Queen “badonkadonk.”

The horny talking radio callers that went wild over female celebrities butts caused this question to pop in my head, "Do black women with big butts have more fun?"

Yes, we do. I use too before I ate one too many bacon cheese burgers.

As a former big butt woman, and now bigger butt woman, I can tell you that when you have a big butt you have a ton of fun. Black men swoon over you and promise you the world and their first born child by another woman (who by the way, has no butt) if they can get a piece of you.

In this good black man recession, it is a must that you have a big butt if want to increase your chances of getting a man. A big butt is the bait you will need to snag your prey. However if all you have is a big butt, you'll get lot’s of indecent proposals and probably no marriage proposals, especially if you dress more sleazy than classy. Butt Bait and nothing else will not get you nothing with a price tag over $100.

If you've got a Serena super-sized butt , you have a little more to catch a man, and a lot more to bargain with.

Funny, there are tons of articles and blogs, books and best selling books, TV shows and TV show specials, that attempt to answer the question of how does a black woman find a good black man.

Who knew the answer was easy. The way to find a good black man is with a big butt. A big butt will lure lot’s of men to you, thus increasing your chances of getting a man.

However, a big butt will only get you so far. If you hope to land a good black man, you have to be a good black woman. You define what it means to be a good man or good woman. Everybody’s definition is different.

For black women that weren’t born with big butts, buy one. It’s as easy as buying fake hair, although way more costly. Or you can go the cheap route and purchase butt pads. Consider yourself lucky if you have a big butt and make sure you keep it right if you’re single and looking to catch a black man. At the very least, if that's all you want, it's a way to have a lot of fun.

Signing off. Off to the gym. Got to get it back right.

Best Look, Less Heat? Fantasia vs. Alicia

The question was posed on a popular radio show as to why Fantasia appears to be getting more scrutinized for her alleged adulterous affair than Alicia Keys. The answer to that question is simple--looks. According to most blogs and tweets that I've read-- most people think that light skinned Alicia Keys looks better than dark brown skinned Fantasia. No post or tweet has directly stated that, but the comments as I read in between the lines, reflect that. Generally, I stay out of the light skin - dark skin debate in the black community because it irks and offends me that the color on ones skin still matters. Sadly, it most certainly does and it's the number one reason that it appears Fantasia is being scrutinized harder than Alicia Keyes.

Fantasia and Alicia Keys are beautiful women. If I were to pick who was more beautiful; I'd go with Fantasia. because I fall into her 'look' category. Or at least I use too a few years back. Fantasia appears to be the kind of 'around the way woman' that every black man would love to have sex with. Sassy cute. Short hair cute. Thick hips and lips cute. Hood cute. Put a drink on your butt cute. Fantasia has the kind of Serena-esq booty that a black man would pay just to touch.

Alicia Keys on the other hand, appears to be the kind of woman that has a universal appeal. She has society - standards of good looks that singers write songs about. She has the kind of look that men want to make wifey. The kind of look that people accept when you allegedly steal someone's husband. She has the kind of looks men tweet about. A few weeks back I read a tweet that stated, "The most beautiful pregnant woman in the world just walked into the studio, Alicia Keys." I was blown away.

It's sad that the light skinned vs. dark skinned debate can't be buried. Its unfair that it appears the lighter complexioned Alicia Keys has somehow not been thrown as far under the bus because she is viewed as more attractive and desirable. Why do some people think Keys is good enough to marry the man that she allegedly took, and that Fantasia is only good enough to be taken. Yes, rumors swirl that her man, whose last name she has tattooed on her chest, set her up to make a buck.

It’s also very sad that in 2010 Red bones still have more fun, or at least they aren't thrown so far under the bus when they allegedly steal someone's man.

Stay strong ladies, only God can judge.
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Happy Masturbating!

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When the Dong don't Ding!


What is a women to do?

Ok that's a silly way to put it. A more scientific way to explain it is when a man has an erection problem and is unable to get or maintain an erection that is firm enough to have satisfactory intercourse.


What's a women to do?

Make it soulful.

Would you pay 65 dollars to learn 41 ways to perform felatio and 10 ways to masturbate>
They did.
More details later.

You have to really focus to make this type of orgasm happen, and watch out, because when it happens, it happens quickly. Ohhhh weeee.


What is an Obama orgasm you ask? It's an orgasm that occurs at the peak of excitement when President Obama, or any person that turns you on, does anything great, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure, usually accompanied by celebration of fireworks going off in your vagina, followed by moistness and the big O. Pow!

Go ahead. Say his name loud. Say his name. Say his name.

Obbbbbbbbbbammmmmaa.

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