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Sue Heffer

Ahhhhh yes… that wonderful week after Christmas –during Kwanzaa – and before New Years when one is afforded that rare opportunity to watch a few movies. As I am in the process of writing a stage play and screenplay simultaneously that has black women’s roles – don’t ask, yes I’m crazy. I decided to catch up on some “sistah” movies. First out the box Waiting to Exhale. A movie about 4 friends with relationship problems. Each sistah’s relationship with her man is worse than the next. I remember watching the movie when it first debuted in 1995, but I didn’t remember anything about the movie, except that it was enjoyable. Of course I was 15 years younger. Now that I’m 15 years older and hopefully wiser - Hello, I wrote the Soulful Vagina Playbook - that movie didn’t go over to well with me. That’s probably because I once saw myself and so many people I know, or read about, in those real life roles with the wack men in that movie.


The wack men. A drunk, drug dealer. A cheater. On the down low. Married. Married to White women. Inadequate, with ugly inward and outward appearance. Prison? Don’t recall that any of them were incarcerated.

Thankfully, I am no longer involved with a wack-black man. Can’t say the same about a few of my sistah-friends though.

Here’s to the New Year. Hoping my black, brown, yellow and white sistah-friends find true happiness – whatever that means.

Celebrate you!
Do You!
Enjoy You!

As the New Year quickly approaches; I am so ready to forget about the top ten lying black men of 2011. Combined these black men’s transgressions include involuntary manslaughter, sexual misconduct against black women, white women and black boys, drug addiction, denial, cheating and the list goes on and on, not in any particular order.


I really hated to compile this black list, because the bulk of hate in America is directed towards the black man, but these men deserve the scorn they’ve received.

Herman Cain – Former Republican candidate Herman Cain rise to chocolate walnut flavor of the month and lead in 2011 GOP polls lasted just over two months. But sexual allegations against Cain by white women will last a lifetime. Ginger White, the women who claimed she had a 13- year affair with Cain finally derailed his train. Cain claimed with much soul searching and praying he dropped out of the race, but we all know it was his white lies and his wife’s migraines that brought his campaign train to a stop.

The last black man that had that many white women come out against him was um…

Tiger Woods – The only difference between the two is that all of Tiger’s women (up to sixteen have emerged) appeared to be money-hungry willing participants. Tiger’s troubles begin Thanksgiving of 2009. But he makes this list because the curse of his Tiger, follows him nonstop. Stories of Tiger and women continued to seep out in 2011, although he is now divorced. Tiger’s biggest lie is his denial of his blackness. Remember he claimed to be Cablinasian?

Apostle Claver - Chances are many of you have never heard of Claver. AKA Herman’s side piece. Google this undercover sweet “Christian.”

Conrad Murray – It wasn’t apparent how big of a big fat liar Murray was until he did that NBC interview. After the interview and trial many asked did the doctor have more propofol or women and babies. In November Dr. Conrad Murray was sentenced to four years in jail for involuntary manslaughter in the death of Michael Jackson.

Michael Jackson – I really hope that the King of Pop is resting in propofol peace. It’s a shame he never found peace on earth. He’s was a beautiful brown boy that turned into drug addicted white women. Also, he was an accused child molester that settled. And why did MJ settle out of court if he didn’t mess with the little boys? MJ makes the list because the media will forever keep him in the spotlight.

Eddie Long – Is there anything worst than a lying man of God? Instead of mentoring



the :Longfellows – Eddie long was sexually abusing them. All the while he was pastor of a mega church. What’s most troubling is that the men he molested continue to make the news and get into trouble. Money might be able to buy silence, but it can’t repair the damage done by molestation. Long claimed he had five rocks – maybe he meant cocks.

Clarence Thomas – That was his pubic hair on that coke can. But then that was a long time ago. More recently Supreme Court Justice Thomas has been accused of failing to report his white wife’s income from a conservative think tank on disclosure forms. Hell yes Supreme court justices should be term limited.

Allen West – (R – FL), this negro with the high top fade said the Democratic Party has created a “21-century plantation” over black voters and wants to keep us on the plantation. Yet this past summer when his brother was unemployed and looking for work – he sent his brother Arlen West to the plantation – the Congressional Black Caucus’s job fair. West is a liar that speaks with a fork tongue.

Alan Keyes – (R-hell) Former candidate for the U.S. Senate once said reparations was an “insult to our slave ancestors.” Seriously Alan? I won’t even repeat what he has said about President Obama. It’s one thing to constructively criticize the president, but his comments about the president are dangerous.

Ray Carruth – Some of you may not know this disgraced former football player who was convicted of hiring a hit man to kill the mother (Cherica Adams) of his unborn child because he didn’t want to pay child support. Carruth ended up going to prison for murdering Adams . Their child, Chancellor Lee Adams survived the ambush, but was born with cerebral palsy. Chancellor should be about eleven years old this year.

Did anyone else see this story? A strip club in Chicago has come up with a very different incentive to get people to donate toys to needy kids - free lapdances! The managers of the Admiral Club have strict rules though: you can only bring a new toy, and no matter how many toys you bring, you can only get one free lapdance! If you’re wondering if folks who love lapdances also love the kids, according to one source, the club collected three carloads of toys in last year’s toy drive! SIDENOTE: Let’s just pray that they hand over their toy before they get their free dance ...