So more updates.  Keep checking will have books and products soon.  Truly working hard to get this thing up and running.  Are you following us on @soulfulvagina    on Facebook  Soulful Vagina

Tonight will unwind with a home cooked meal and red wine.

After a long day of work, and being stuck in traffic-- it's definitely time to unwind.

Picked up a used copy of Charles Dickens - A tale of two cities at the bookstore.
Want to read the book, recently it was on Oprah's book club read list.
Read it in college, many years ago, remember that there were so many explosive themes running throughout the book.

Good night. Sweet dreams, readers.

If you could pay for you admission into heaven and sin as much as you wanted, would you?

Should churches with declining memberships  pay with food, coffee, and lotteries to attract new members?

Dear Blog readers:

Sorry that we haven't updated in a few days.  We're still trying to figure out in which direction to take SV. Everything that could go wrong, has gone wrong.  The product ladies dissappeared.  There have been setbacks with the books, the printing, the artwork, etc.  We are getting t-shirts and even that is not going smoothly. 

But we love you all, we thank you for checking this blog and our website.  We welcome your feedback.  And we hope to bring you something really wonderful, real soon.

In the meantime, "do you."

Interesting little video.

Celebrate you by keeping a harmonious song in your heart and elsewhere. Why don’t some people speak? Hello. Why don’t they think before they speak? Who knows.


And the beat goes on. Doesn’t it? Themes flow through our lives. The themes aren’t always harmonious. Shit happens. Sometimes the beat sounds great. But the lyrics are harmful. There’s a beat in our heart. And most def a beat between our legs. The beats vibrate, causing our hips to gyrate. That beat is called excitement and sometimes it’s caused by horniness.

Think about this. Where do things we create come from? Do they come from our heart? Our mind? Or between our legs? Answer! There is no right or wrong answer.

Where do babies come from?



Life exist right there between our legs. Between our legs is all the power in the world. Some of what exist between our legs have caused the fall of politicians, celebrities, and everyday people.

Stuff has been bought, sold, traded and murdered because of what’s between our legs.

Listen closely. It’s important to be careful about who you share your soulful music with. Your soulful music can bring forth children, bring forth destruction better known as disease. In its simplest form it can bring forth pleasure, masturbation.

So go ahead, make music between your legs, but make sure that its good music. Make it a hit.

This sistah has got it going on between her legs.

So the Oprah show for the next two days will be about blacks and the lack of diversity at the national parks. Well that’s just fantastic. No really it is. I love parks and I have been camping for at least two decades. So really, I think it’s great. But I also a little bombed out that Oprah, nor Gayle has not come calling about my book--Soulful Vagina. Heeeeeelloooooo Oprah instead of doing two shows on camping, how about putting me on your show. C’mon Oprah, don’t make me beg.



Good night blog readers, to lazy to edit this post.......

First, about this blog. Don’t let the title fool ya. This blog seeks to empower and educate women. We desire to provide a forum in which woman can have open and honest conversations on a variety of topics. We receive lots of comments from men, and that’s great. We welcome men to join in regarding topics on this blog.  Also, check the website soulfulvagina.com


First if you aren’t familiar with Williams-Bolar a little about her.


Kelly Williams-Bolar is an Ohio mother who was convicted of lying about her children’s residency so that they could attend a better school. While she was convicted, it has been reported that her children lived with her father, in that school district and were in fact eligible to attend the school.


Today Williams-Bolar was will appear on the Dr. Phil show. From the previews of the show and according to published reports, Dr. Phil was incredibly tough on Williams-Bolar, which has struck a nerve with some in the community.

Jazzy a regular to this blog sent an email. Here’s part of her email, “Dr. Phil let’s white women get away with all types of shit on his show, so I don’t get why wants to make her the poster child for bad behavior.”

I haven’t seen the show. Will record and watch it later. So what do you think, was Dr. Phil to hard on Williams-Bolar.


Do tell?

And don't forget to check her interview on the Al Sharpton radio show today.  Go to the webiste National Action Network.

I read an interesting article in Clutch an online magazine. The article raises the question to shave or not to shave pubic hair. What do you think? Do you shave?




Oh do tell.

A well-intentioned white woman approached me in the grocery store and asked me if anybody had ever told me that I looked like Gayle King. They had. I don’t. Indeed, many consider Gayle King to be a delish woman of color, but I don’t look anything like her.


Although we have the same hair color, occasionally sport bangs, and...well never mind.

The other day when I was hanging out with my well-intentioned inebriated aunt she told me, “ I hate black people. I love real niggas.” Sometimes when you don’t agree with a drunk relatives bullshit rhetoric, they accuse you of being a fake black person. I’m not. But like most people, I have a certain standard that I live by, as does my aunt when she’s not fucked up drinking.


Recently, Gayle King’s radio program begin airing in our town. My aunt hates Gayle King’s show as do some blacks in our city. Some believe that her show touches on topics that are out of touch with black Americans.

Question. Is Gayle King’s show out of touch with black America, and if so does it matter? Have you listened to the Gayle King show? If so, what do you think about the show?

Oh, do tell in the comment section below.